Hi . I replied to you in the forum you created, but I hope you get more responses here. The suggestions I made involve staying in the same bedroom, but separate bedrooms are also an option if you are both okay with that. Lots of couples have separate bedrooms simply because they prefer it, but they don't talk about it because they worry people won't understand. It's neither abnormal nor unhealthy. Gentle hugs. - Lori (Team Member)